An example of the perfectionist qualities that haunt me... in my constant attempt to explain it all.
So after many (maybe two, or one and a half) attempts at trying to write about my time in Kolkata, I find myself unable to patter away at the keyboard and put my experiences into words. It's definitely not due to a lack of inspiration, or things to write about. Instead, it's almost too much to put into words. I think it's a common trait amongst each and every one of the moments or complete experiences that I could deem my favorite times, or unforgettable. If anything, I think that I resist writing about such things, because I know exactly how frustrated I'll get typing a single line, erasing it, writing a single line, striking a line through it, rewording, rephrasing, and adjusting, in order to explain why something so simple was so meaningful, or to catch all of the details in a overly extravagant evening of Kati rolls and Cricket. But here I go...
So before I came to India, my girlfriend put me in touch with one of her friends--Mr. Ankit Chandak. For four years, Ankit and I roamed over the same red bricks, through the same hollowed halls, and choked down the same (well almost, he's a vegetarian...) cafeteria food at the Husky Union Building at UW. And in those four years, we never once met. He did, however, get along with Jess well enough, to be kind enough, to invite me to stay with him and his family in Kolkata while I was vagabonding around his country. Not even thinking about the possibility that we wouldn't get along, I started exchanging messages with him through facebook, accepted his invitation, and booked a flight from Jaipur to the Big K. I don't know if I was starved for friendship, in need of someone who can understand my Husky Spirit, or excited to see a city through the eyes of someone who knows it like the back of their hand. Truth be told, it was probably a little of everything. Either way, I embarked upon this portion of my journey full steam ahead, just figuring that the best would happen--and it did.
I woke up way too early on the morning of the 11th to catch the from Jaipur to Kolkata. Of course, being the American that I am, I realized that I probably didn't have to get to the airport two hours early, as all I really needed to do was shove my way to the front of the security line at the last minute like everyone else. After weaving my way through some pretty auspicious security checks, I made my way to the boarding gate where I'd reside until the next bum rush. As I sat comfortably in my chair, I looked forward to seeing a familiar face (we never met, but I had seen his photo on facebook, haha...) and pondered why in the hell Indians don't listen to the airplane attendants when they say, "Please keep your seat in the upright position..." (Was it because she was a female? Culturally, do people not like listening to instructions? Does the standard 'upright' not mean the same thing here? I probably, and way too pensively, thought about the matter for a while longer than I should have, then went back to wondering what it would be like seeing things from a different perspective.
An Aside: There are few things more awkward than sitting in an airport in the morning, being attacked by mosquitoes, and doing your best to kill each and every one of them until you realize that you're sitting in between Buddhist monks (who don't believe in killing things--I think).
The plane landed smoothly about thirty minutes ahead of time, and the Spanish pilot received a standing ovation from the rawkus crowd. We departed the plane, and promptly proceeded to wait for our luggage for around an hour. I was cool with it, as I didn't really see a Husky t-shirt in the mob surrounding the arrival gate (think pink carnation), and it would give me some more time. After snatching my bag, I snuck to the internet cafe to try to find Ankit's phone number. Of course, after I paid way too much to check my email, I bumped into Ankit. We promptly said our hellos, shook hands, and were off to the car--being followed the entire way by a woman who noticed I was white at the very last second. I'm pretty sure she banged on the hood too... But alas, it was a lovely Mother's Day afternoon and we sped off into the steamy afternoon in search of Orchids--Ankit's Mom's favorite flower. Of course, like all good kids, we forgot to get the flowers and then arrived at the Chandak residence empty handed... I met the immediate family and was made to feel at home almost immediately (a trend that has continued to this very moment). Ankit and I went back out for the day, grabbed the most amazing tandoori kebabs I've ever had in my life, had my first beer in a month, and finally remembered to get his mom the flowers. Life in Kolkata was good--almost perfect. Now, we just needed to figure out what to do for the rest of my days there...
Fortunately, my newfound friend Ankit prepared a list. After some banter, we got off topic and like all Sagittariuses (we have the same birthday!), we promptly dispatched the list in favor of playing it by ear. It was eventually decided that we would head to his family's under-construction rice mill and then to the flour mill in the morning. It was here that I found out just how big of a deal Ankit really is (proof directly below):
At only the young age of 22, Ankit already has a company named after him... His brother is pissed too... I only kid... I think.
After a severe sneezing fit, I was ushered out of the flour mill and into an air-conditioned car where we'd travel right back to the Big K. I'm pretty sure that Ankit wondered if I was bored--or overly heated--from our visit to the mills, and I did my best to let him know how much I truly appreciate seeing things that are otherwise impossible to see. You know, at least for a simple backpacker such as myself in a foreign land where people typically want bribes to show you anything of interest. Plus, when in the hell am I ever going to be able to visit a flour mill or learn about all the thought and planning that goes into a construction project in India? It was intense, and I never realized how much thought really has to go into the taxes, tax breaks, the environment, the workers, the heat, watering the cement of a newly constructed foundation--everything. I was also amazed at what kind of thought has to go into the humanitarian side of things (if that's the appropriate word for it) when running a business in India. A lot of the workers sleep on site, men and women work side by side, and little kids wander around without guidance. It was interesting to see what Ankit take on a lot of these things were--especially having seen things from the American point of view for four years. All in all, it was a wonderful and thought provoking opportunity to learn something I wouldn't have pursued otherwise.
We then spent the afternoon in a hookah bar gorging ourselves on nachos. That is, after all, the Indian thing to do, right?
The day was concluded with a romantic cruise consisting of three dudes on a boat in the river, gazing at the Howrah bridge from afar. The sunset was an incredible signal to the end of my first full fledged, non-jet lagged day in Kolkata, and I was eating every second of it up...
There is nothing like a romantic cruise on the river, with three dudes, and a pocket full of fatafat (I don't know how to describe the taste of this Indian candy aside from slightly putrid and satisfying)
We then played video games, and I relished the opportunity to be a real boy again. An honest, breathing, bleeding (it was an intense game), real boy. It's funny how quickly you forget about the little things that comforted you, almost every day, until they're put right back in front of your face.
Sometime before floating down the river, we decided to get tickets for the following evening's cricket match between the Kolkata Knight Riders and the Delhi Dare Devils of the newly formed Indian Premier League. Cricket, as I have seen and have been told, is the stuff of legends here in India. There is not a child that doesn't play it, or an adult that can't rattle off every single rule of the game to a confused American in the entire country--or so it seems. The match itself would also take place in the fabled Eden Gardens, which is perhaps the most famous of all Cricket stadiums in the world (I'm just repeating what people have told me. I don't know a damn thing about cricket.).
Upon slowly rolling out of bed, we jetted out into the steaming hot Kolkata morning to see the sights and catch a Bollywood movie--Tashan. The sights were interesting, but it was too damned hot to really appreciate much, except for some of the artwork inside of Victoria Memorial. Plus, it was yet another opportunity to be looked at by many of the Indian tourists who found me more interesting than the paintings. Which, might I add, is starting to become pretty flattering, really (I mean, how else should you take it? I'm pretty sure that there is absolutely no malice involved; you can tell by the huge shit eating grins on peoples' faces when you say hello!). The movie was classic over the top Bollywood, with unreal song and dance sequences of bikini clad women in the rain on Greek islands. From what Ankit translated for me, I gathered that the story was supposed to be somewhat of a Quentin Tarantino style action flick where all of the characters' lives were intertwined somehow and the story was told through subplots. Either way, despite the fact that it was in Hindi, I got the point and came away thoroughly entertained. It was awful and cheesy. We snagged some Kati Rolls (street food) that would later be the death of me, and mentally prepared ourselves for the game.
Another Aside: I think that one of the highlights of my time in India has been being able to hang out with Ankit and his friends--which include his cousins. It's be pretty refreshing to see a family so tightly knit, and it was just a positive experience in general for me to hang out with these American-educated young Indians and get their perspectives on the differences between our cultures, education, working abroad or at home, etc.
The fabled Eden Gardens Cricket Stadium: Home of the Kolkata Knight Riders. This woman would not sit down, and yet nobody tried to fight her...
At Eden Gardens...
You don't truly know India until you've gone to a cricket match. It's not the first step, and it's not the last, but it's certainly essential in understanding the culture. At least, that was my take after spending a good three and a half hours watching the Kolkata Knight Riders overcome a deficit by providing one of the greater bowling (=pitching) performances that has ever been known to man (as I was emphatically told at least 15 times by Ankit and his friends... haha). It was there in Eden Gardens that I saw the other side of India--the testosterone fueled, hormonally charged, star-crazed, overly impassioned, and sexually frustrated side. It was probably one of the only times I've ever seen multiple--around five--fights amongst fans of the same team. It wasn't a result of the match situation either, but rather because people wouldn't sit down. The most ridiculous moment came when a policeman came up the aisle to stop the fight and chastise a man for standing in the way of an elderly man, only to then stand in front of the very same elderly man. This my friends is a representation of all that puzzles me about this lovely curry flavored country. Anyway, the match was a thriller, though I spent the majority of my time trying to understand what in the hell was happening--how scoring worked--and sucking down water in order to avoid the inevitable dehydration. I was unsuccessful at either, and proceeded to feel nauseous 10 minutes before the end of the game. I was later told that I didn't end up missing anything too thrilling, though I'm sure there were more than a few small riots that could have entertained for hours...
My final day consisted of recovering from the dehydration by going to a hot and steamy marketplace to search for hand printed cloth and some ungodly colored linen in hopes of making sweet pajama pants. Ankit's mom helped me accomplish both before I passed out, and we ventured back to the Chandak home where I would crash and prepare for a train ride to the north and Darjeeling.
A torrential downpour in the streets of Kolkata...
Ankit's family sent one of their drivers with me to the train station to help make sure that I got on the train. No, it wasn't because they knew I was totally inept at handling such situations as simply getting on a train, but rather I was waitlist 20 on the Darjeeling Mail. I basically had no shot to get on the train that I HAD to get on in order to get to Darjeeling by the next afternoon. After about thirty minutes of frantically running up and down the line trying to find out who we should bribe, we found nobody. So what did I do? I just got on the train and hoped for the best. As lucky as I am, I found a berth on the second class sleeper and asked around to see if anyone was sitting there. When the car manager came by I started fabricating a story only to find out that he didn't speak English. Luckily a man sitting across from me was willing to translate the story that I was making up and even more luckily the manager bought the whole thing. There I was, in the middle of a country known for it's clever swindlers, swindling my way out of paying baksheesh (the word for bribery). I had paid too much already to be on the waitlist, and figured that I shouldn't pay anymore... When in Rome, right? Anyway, I made it to Darjeeling alright and lived happily ever after--until the power went out.
I'm back in Kolkata now, and fly off to Bangkok tomorrow, where I'll turn around and fly to Hong Kong a couple days later. I'm really really sad to see my time in India come to an end, as it's a place that I've seriously come to love in such a short period of time. A lot of this has to do with the Chandak family and the amazing hospitality that they have shown me while visiting. I don't think that there has ever been a point in my life where strangers (not complete ones thanks to facebook) have made me feel so comfortable in their homes. They've helped me accomplish my goal of drinking chai, eating every possible type of Indian food there is, and basically gorging myself in all things Indian. In a country known for making people lose weight, I am pretty sure I've gained it--which goes to show the dedication that they had in ensuring my good time. I seriously cannot thank them enough, and it's not even because of the fact that they were good to me, but rather that they're just good, kind people in general--and that goes for the whole family. However, I know that I would feel the same way had I not seen the side of India that I've seen while in Kolkata and also in the north. The people, places, trains, etc. have all played a tremendous role in overwhelming my senses and actually inspiring me--creatively, mostly. I don't know, it's just different here. It's a place that you have to see, and should try to see from all angles and sides; through first class trains, second class trains, rickshaws, air conditioned buildings, buildings with no fans, from tall buildings, from the streets, from the rivers, etc. The place is just pretty damn sweet.
But yeah, that's what I've got. Now, I'm off to pack and read about traveling in India, oddly enough.
I strongly recommend Paul Theroux's Great Railway Bazaar if you ever get a chance to read it.
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